Before entering our site, we as you take a look at our DNI. Don't worry, it's nothing stupid like "if you like x anime go die" or anything like that. We're generally comfortable with anyone from any sort of background. We're also kink-positive and inclusive, as we've already mentioned (yes, we're trying to hammer it home in the hopes of keeping out exclus/"antis"). While we're not comfortable with all kinks, we're not going to lose our minds if you write "problematic" fanfiction. Normal etiquette applies; if we say we're uncomfortable with something, don't press. We, of course, extend the same curtosy! It's important to be respectful of each other.

If you can get past that part, feel free to read the rest!

• We don't talk to minors. Don't contact us if you're under 18, at all.
• We don't condone harassment of anyone, for any reason, no matter how deplorable. Harassment is not a solution to the problem, it's a product of slacktivism. Nuance is important.
• We do our best to be well-educated on any topic we choose to discuss. We spend a lot of time studying psychology, especially sexual psychology. We also study laws that effect victims of abuse, queer folk, POC, women, and other marginialized groups. We know the law in our country re: fiction, and we know it in a good chunk of the rest of the western world, too. Feel free to ask us for resources anytime you need them!
• You don't get to know what our system "origin" is. You don't get to be privy to our private life or medical information, thank you very much. Don't ask.
• We're kin with a lot of villains / deplorable characters. Some are facets, others are not. Some we're not sure.
• It's okay if you have issues with "doubles," but please leave us out of it. We aren't going to agree with you that it's completely reasonable to invalidate someone else because an aspect of their plurality or kintupes upset you. Block and move on, please!
• That said, we're a system and consider outselves kin. These are different things, but they relate closely. Please avoid us if you think kin should stay away from systems, and visa-versa. There's a discussion to be had there but I am not going to be the one to have it at this time.
• Sysmeds and TERF rhetoric will get you blocked, obviously. Same with the usual BS: alt-right/fascist shit, queerphobia, racism, yadda yadda. We'll also block people who bitch about kink at pride, or kinks they don't like in general. We're sorry you're uncomfortable, please stop looking it up/talking about it.
• If you're the sort of person who thinks that an alter/facet/headmate/etc. can be "objectively evil," please don't talk to us.
• If you're going to try and pick apart our every word and misrepresent us, or accuse one of us of trying to cause harm, please don't talk to us. None of us ever want to hurt others on purpose, and if we do so on accident we'll do our best to clarify what we've said that may have been hurtful! Our system has several members who talk in a no-nonsense manner, don't use tone indicators (/pos, /gen, /j, etc.) or emotes, and some have considered that as aggression. It's not.
• We probably aren't your canonmate, sorry!
• "Love bombing" will get you blocked.
• If you know our main accounts that's fine, it's not really a deep dark secret, but we're not out to everyone in our lives. It's not safe for us right now. Please respect that.
• We block liberally, because we don't have the time or energy to fight random strangers about stupid things. If you're blocked, please respect that. Panicking/trying to ask us why you're blocked will get you nowhere with us.
  
  
  
  
  

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